Sometimes, in order to please others, we may need to change ourselves, especially when we have plans and the other party is your leader, this kind of pleasing will become extremely obvious.Everyone knows it.
However, the interesting phenomenon is that this kind of flattery may not necessarily be accurate.
For example, I heard that in order to please the leader and let the leader see that he worked hard, he did not hesitate to faint in front of the leader, almost fainted in the leader's arms, hoping to be promoted by the leader.As a result, not only did the leader not promote him, but he also revealed a feeling that "this person's acting skills are too good". From then on, this friend had no choice but to resign and leave.And another friend of mine was much luckier. He was born with the aura of "the leader likes it". Although his ability is not as strong as others, it is not too bad., can also get bonus points, and natural promotion is relatively more effective with half the effort.
This is actually the reality. When the leader likes you, everything you do is right, but when the leader doesn't take you seriously or even hates you, everything you do is wrong.
People, learn to accept this fact.Especially when you have a plan, don't doubt your ability because of the face of the leader. It's not that your ability is wrong, but your timing is wrong.
At this time, don't try your best to change yourself, because it requires persistence beyond ordinary people, and the persistence may be in vain in the end, because the leader knows that what he needs is a "person who doesn't please me but can work."
Zhou Yu and Huang Gai, one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer. There may not be rewards for giving, but you can choose whether you are willing to give or not. You just need to understand that it takes a very, very long time for the stereotyped effect of leadership to be shaken.You have to weigh whether you have the patience and endurance for that long.