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Diary of sister and brother (72)

      Child psychology has its limits , The child is over six years old , I began to enter the second inversion period of my life . At this stage , Self centered , Withdrawn 、 indifferent 、 Anxious 、 Not according to common sense , Even use your hands and feet , Abnormal grumpy behavior is unreasonable . This phenomenon is in the eyes of the older generation , When it comes to children “ cause others to dislike ” In the age of , Need to strengthen discipline ,“ A good man comes out of the golden staff , No fight, no adult .” Is this really the case ? I think back to my childhood ,6 At the age of half, I just went to primary school , Just in time “ Three years of natural disasters ”, Hunger is more than anything . If you insist that there is a rebellious mood , I would rather be hungry , I don't want to eat sweet potatoes , My elder sister is pitiful when she sees me , Just exchange her rice for sweet potatoes .

      When things get better , I know a lot of truth that I haven't heard before . Take the three stages of a child's rebellious period for example , Our Lele brother this year 9 In the month 6 year , According to textbooks, we have entered a period of rebellion . But I don't know how , Lele's younger brother has begun to rebel recently , The originally good mood suddenly changed , Do what you don't want to do , Instead of doing what should be done . Reason with him. I don't want to listen , Be anxious with him. He is more anxious than you . Some unreasonable demands , If you indulge blindly, there is no bottom line , Using high voltage is incompetent . What do I do ? The mother of the child is patient enough , What Lele is asked to do , At first, I was neither willing nor anxious , Give sufficient buffer time , Let them calm down before doing . Grandma has found a new way these two days , Closely follow the characteristics of Lele interest , Use skillfully when he is willful , Quickly turn rebellion into obedience . The father's method is emotional but less common sense , Inadvertently fell into a difficult impasse .

      Lele's younger brother who entered the inversion period ahead of time , It is not always counter productive , When you get up, you can't be good . Grandma summed up the characteristics of , The child has a rational way of thinking , Foreknowledge of everything makes him have a number in mind , I will remind you to be voluntary . In case of special circumstances, you should not act too hastily , It made him willing to explain the reason slowly , This effect is twice as effective as the past . I can't wait for my child , And we can't force it with the patriarchal system , Whose parents don't care about their children , The key is to understand psychology 、 Knowledge method 、 Be patient .

( The illustration of this article is taken by the author in the backyard )

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