No, thanks!

2021-09-15 04:34:12  作者:Life journey

“ hi , Xiaoyun , After school, , Let's play catch Dolls ”, Pupil Lily said to Xiao Yun .

“ i'm not coming , thank you ”, Xiao Yun thinks of the past few days , The two of them went to play with catching Dolls , I spent a lot of money , I haven't caught a doll .

lily : Try it , You'll catch it this time .

Xiaoyun : i'm not coming , thank you .

lily : Why? , Don't you like that pink doll very much ?

Xiaoyun : i'm not coming , thank you .

lily : Let's just play twice , Whether you can catch , Just play twice .

Xiaoyun : i'm not coming , thank you .

lily : Are you afraid your mother will know ?

Xiaoyun : i'm not coming , thank you .

lily : Are you a coward ?

Xiaoyun : i'm not coming , thank you .

lily : Would you say that ?

Xiaoyun : i'm not coming , thank you .

After reading this example , I don't know how you feel as a parent ?

If your child is like a cloud , Then you have to boast about her , Children not only know how to refuse , A rejection method is also cleverly applied , That is, no matter what the other party says , Keep repeating “ No ” perhaps “ No , thank you ”.

This method has a name , called “ Broken record method ”.

By Jeff . The technique created by Dr. wandra , Able to deal with difficult requirements , Because it's like a broken record , Repeat a sentence over and over again , So it was named “ Broken record method ”.

just as 《 The power of conversation 》 As mentioned : No one can argue with a broken record , So the other party will have to give up in the end .

“ obedient ” We grew up , A word often heard , Listen to your parents at home , Listen to the teacher at school , The unit listens to the leaders ; A colleague asked for help , We should sacrifice ourselves for others ; A friend invited , Be happy to accompany .

Slowly, ,“ obedient ” Turned into “ Don't know how to refuse ”, Or fear of losing friendship , Or worry that your superiors will no longer trust you , Or isolated by colleagues , Some people even think they said to their friends “ No ”, I feel uneasy in my heart .

We carry a heavy load , In the absence of rejection , More and more tired , Even against the original intention .

《 Secret and great 》 Zhao Zhiyong is one who doesn't understand , Who dare not refuse , Facing the temptation of fame , The superior's coercion , He became indecisive , For temporary safety , He gave in to justice , What you get is luck , What is lost is life , Finally fell off a building and died .

Poor and sad people , When dealing with bad temptations , I wish he would say “ No ”.

I've said since I was a child “ No ”、“ No , thank you ” Xiao Yun , As you get older , She will apply this method to many things , And feel the sense of growth brought by this method , This method will precipitate into her code of conduct , So that she can be in front of Temptation , Keep your original heart .

If you are a parent , You might as well teach your children to say “ No ”; If you are also worried about the good gentleman , You might as well use “ Broken record method ”.

If you want to give this method , Add another strength , That's it : stand straight 、 Look into each other's eyes 、 Say clearly and definitely .

No , thank you !

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