Many things are simple , Just grasp the essence .
But it's also artificially complicated .
In the end, you will learn nothing .
The three most important factors that attract men
First of all , Sexual attraction
second , High value attracts
Third , Emotional value attracts
The above is in sequence , Exist side by side and play a part together .
The following is just an example ：
Will such a woman be welcomed by men ？
It must be popular .
But some women want the opposite sex to like their inner world ？
But where is the other person inside ？ How to see ？
We can't simply take a man's liking as superficial .
In ancient times , great scourges , Poor living conditions .
Living is the first element of human beings .
Facing the influence of extreme natural environment , The best survival strategy is group .
Great strength , Physical strength was also the best choice for human beings at that time .
And all of these can be expressed through a person's appearance .
After survival is reproduction .
In order to continue our genes .
The ideal strategy for a man is to have sex with countless women .
Theoretically , One man can make all the women on earth pregnant .
As long as each sperm is available .
But why can't women be gene transmitters ？
Think about it and you'll see .
With years of genetic evolution , Until now .
At the same time, along with the change of Aesthetics .
Why do men like fair skinned women ？
In the previous open class, I said , Fair skin may mean no productive work .
And this is a survival strategy for men .
But people with dark skin ？ May be engaged in productive labor .
A man will think of her as a union , It's very unlikely that one's genes will spread .
Why do men like beautiful women ？
It's not just for the eye , And more importantly, when you're with her , Your genes are more likely to survive .
therefore , In the beginning, men will judge your survival value through your appearance .
High value attracts
High value attracts a wide range of people .
But on the whole it can be understood as ： Diploma , Work and career , Family background , Relationships, etc .
When you have or something like that , Because everyone is influenced by the social value order .
It was also said in the open class that , I won't repeat it here .
One of human nature is to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages .
They will be better for you .
Even they will reverse rationalize all your actions .
It became so simple and traceable .
Even you'll find it funny .
meanwhile , We need to have a deep understanding of ： The essence of interpersonal communication is to provide value , Instead of asking for value .
Emotional attraction can be roughly understood as how to chat .
Many boys and girls often make a fatal mistake, that is, they are blindly learning the script .
In their heads , Good at learning script , It's like it can touch everything .
People who don't see the essence are a waste of time .
So they ignore sexual attraction and high value attraction .
My courses have always been very practical .
For example, a screenshot .