This era is developing very fast , New skills emerge every day 、 New ways to learn .
To avoid being eliminated , We're always after this , I started to learn that before I finished .
And even bought a lot of classes , Just to make up for the regret of not learning well in the last stage .
Jung once said ： The person looking out is dreaming , Those who look inward are sober .
Want to stay awake all the time in life , Cultivate these six abilities early , It can make people walk less detours .
01 Breakthrough ability
Want to surpass others , The first thing to do is , It's about breaking through yourself .
Pictured , Before sorting out, you may feel that you have lived in the past , Not outstanding, not excellent , No sense of achievement .
But look at it after sorting out , The blue area and the red area , It's obviously the whole piece .
Break through yourself , Start by sorting out your past life .
02 Thinking ability
Thinking is not a complicated problem , You don't even need to know “ metacognitive ”“ The underlying logic ”“ Core essence ” What exactly do these words mean .
You don't have to learn complex models 、 Tools 、 Chart method .
Just when everything happens , Ask yourself ： Why is that? ？ also ？ so what ？
The whole process is around why、what、how3 In terms of , Keep using “ Why ”“ And? ”“ so what ” Lead yourself to think .
03 Self help ability
In fact, most people study hard 、 Actively report lessons , It's self-help , But I still think “ He saved ”, I hope to save myself through this time .
Thinking about “ With little effort , You can get a quick return .”
Sometimes I don't understand ,“ People who were nice to themselves at the beginning , What's the matter , I don't want to talk about it ”.
It's not that people don't want to , I didn't want to .
In the past ta Not busy , Can reply ,ta Busy , I can't get back .
therefore , Even if you can't think of a good solution , With “ The draft ” Go for help , It's more important than empty handed , More popular .
If you want to enjoy the cool by the big tree , And don't be eager , The easy way to use it is one tree a year .
otherwise , No one will be able to save .
04 Frustration ability
Human life , There are so many bad times .
People who can't bear setbacks , It's all the past. It's so smooth .
A man with a strong heart , They all come out of one pit after another , gray 、 one 's sabre-rattling is getting louder and the smell of gunpowder thicker 、 the glint and flash of cold steel , It's no exaggeration .
When you don't care so much about face , When you don't care much about what other people think of you , Any more problems , Will not be afraid .
05 The ability to make decisions
No matter how you choose , There must be some consequence , Don't worry about “ In case …… What do I do ？”
It's more about asking yourself “ In case ……, What can I do ？”
If you think of it ABC None of the solutions worked very well , Then think about who can give DEF programme .
The decision is “ Make a decision , Want to 3 There are two possible consequences , And when there are different consequences , Maybe I can try what to do .”
Even if you think of a way , It still doesn't work , At least it tested that the road didn't work , I won't go this way again in the future .
A lot of times I don't dare to make a decision , It's not the inability to deal with the terrible consequences , It's about scaring yourself , I don't think I can .
Or , I didn't even think I could do it , There's only one sentence in my head “ What should I do ？ What should I do ？”
I panicked first .
06 Resist temptation
The most terrible thing these days is “ I don't think I can in the future ”.
Those who can resist temptation , It's just that “ In the future , It's going to take a little bit of effort at most , But then what ？”